“And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived…” 1 Timothy 2:14

Feminine self deception affects all women

And now a very large number of men

Masculine self deception is also a thing

Both forms of self deception have to do with being especially open to manipulation in the area of your virtues, your strengths

It is a sort of blindspot that the other is able to reveal in you